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Engineering Manager interview kit: questions and rubric
5 competencies · 11 questions · anchored 1-to-5 scale · Updated · Written by the Itya team
How to use this kit
- Agree the competencies with the hiring manager before the job is posted.
- Give each interviewer one or two competencies, so nothing is asked twice.
- Ask every candidate the same core questions; follow up freely.
- Rate each competency against the anchors straight after the interview, alone.
- Debrief on quotes, not adjectives, then decide with the rule at the end.
First-round screen
Fifteen to twenty minutes, by phone, video or a disclosed AI screen. The aim is to confirm the basics before the panel spends its time.
- Why management, and why this team now? What do you want to be true of your team a year from today?
- Tell me about the team you lead now: its size, what it owns, and how you spend a typical week.
- How hands-on are you with code and technical decisions today, and how hands-on do you want to be in this role?
- The job description sets out the location, working pattern and start date. Do those work for you, what is your notice period, and what compensation range are you expecting?
Competency 1
Hiring and developing people
An engineering manager's output is the team's output. The clearest evidence is what happened to the people who worked for them.
Tell me about an engineer who grew significantly while you managed them. What did you do, specifically?
Follow up with
- How did you work out what they needed?
- What feedback did you give them that was hard to hear?
- What are they doing now?
Tell me about a time someone on your team was not meeting the bar. What did you do?
Follow up with
- When did you first notice, and when did you first say so?
- What did you write down?
- How did it end?
Walk me through the last hire you made for your team, from opening the role to the offer.
Follow up with
- How did you decide what to assess?
- Tell me about a hire you got wrong. What changed afterwards?
| Rating | What it looks like |
|---|---|
| 5 · Strong | Shows named people growing in scope, raises performance problems early with written expectations, and runs a deliberate hiring process that they have improved after a mistake. |
| 3 · Mixed | Gives real examples of coaching and feedback. Handles performance problems, but late or only when HR pushes. Hiring is sound but informal. |
| 1 · Weak | Speaks about development in slogans. Avoided or delayed hard feedback. Cannot name a person they grew or describe how they assess candidates. |
Competency 2
Delivery and execution
A team that cannot ship predictably loses the trust of the business. The manager owns the system that turns priorities into shipped work.
Tell me about a project your team delivered late. What happened, and what did you change?
Follow up with
- When did you know it would be late, and who did you tell?
- What could you have cut?
What would you do if, in your first month, you found the team had committed to a date it could not meet?
Follow up with
- What would you need to know before talking to stakeholders?
- What would you say to the team?
| Rating | What it looks like |
|---|---|
| 5 · Strong | Runs a planning system the team trusts, surfaces risk early with options, and changes the process after each miss so it does not repeat. |
| 3 · Mixed | Runs a reasonable planning rhythm and delivers most commitments. Surfaces risks, but sometimes late. |
| 1 · Weak | Cannot describe how their team plans or tracks work. Responds to slips with pressure or blame. |
Competency 3
Technical judgment
The manager need not write the most code, but they arbitrate trade-offs: build or buy, refactor or ship, reliability or features.
Tell me about a significant technical decision your team made in the last year. What was your part in it?
Follow up with
- What were the alternatives?
- How did you weigh engineering cost against business need?
- Would you make the same call today?
What would you do if your senior engineers wanted a quarter to pay down technical debt and your product manager wanted features?
Follow up with
- What evidence would you ask each side for?
- What would a compromise look like?
| Rating | What it looks like |
|---|---|
| 5 · Strong | Explains trade-offs in technical and business terms, draws out the team's expertise, and makes decisions whose reasoning others can inspect later. |
| 3 · Mixed | Understands the main trade-offs and makes sensible calls, but leans toward engineering or product without making the trade-off explicit. |
| 1 · Weak | Cannot explain the trade-offs behind their team's technical decisions, or dictates technical choices without involving the team. |
Competency 4
Stakeholder communication
The manager is the team's interface with product, design, other engineering teams and leadership. Clear, early communication prevents most escalations.
Tell me about a time you had to say no, or not yet, to a senior stakeholder.
Follow up with
- How did you frame it?
- What did you offer instead?
- What was the relationship like afterwards?
Work sample: here are the facts of a project that is two weeks behind. Write a three-sentence status update for leadership.
Follow up with
- What did you leave out, and why?
- What do you need from leadership?
| Rating | What it looks like |
|---|---|
| 5 · Strong | Delivers bad news early with options, says no with alternatives, and writes updates that lead with the decision needed. |
| 3 · Mixed | Communicates clearly with peers and leadership, but is sometimes slow to deliver bad news or too quick to accept requests. |
| 1 · Weak | Communicates late or only when asked, and avoids conflict with stakeholders until it escalates. |
Competency 5
Team health
Burnout, attrition and quiet disengagement show up in delivery months later. Good managers notice early and fix the way the team works, not only the symptom.
Tell me about a time someone on your team was struggling or close to burning out. How did you notice, and what did you do?
Follow up with
- What did you change in how the team worked?
- What do you wish you had done sooner?
What would you do if two senior engineers on your team stopped working together after a heated disagreement?
Follow up with
- How would you avoid taking sides?
- When would you involve HR?
| Rating | What it looks like |
|---|---|
| 5 · Strong | Spots signals early, acts privately and respectfully, and changes the team's system (on-call, priorities, norms) so the problem does not return. |
| 3 · Mixed | Notices problems and responds with care, but fixes symptoms rather than the way the team works. |
| 1 · Weak | Does not notice team problems until someone leaves. Handles conflict by avoiding it or by taking sides. |
Never ask
- Don't ask a candidate's age, or whether they are comfortable managing people older or younger than they are. Why: age says nothing about management skill, and age-based decisions are unlawful in many places.
- Don't ask about marital status, children, pregnancy or how a parent would 'manage the hours'. Why: none of it is job-related. Describe the hours and on-call expectations and ask every candidate whether they can meet them.
- Don't ask about religion, caste, community or the origin of a surname, directly or by proxy ('What does your father do?'). Why: in India these questions signal caste and religion, which have no bearing on the job.
- Don't ask 'Where are you from originally?' or 'What is your native place?'. Why: it invites judgments about region and community. If location matters, ask whether the candidate can work from the job's location.
- Don't ask about health conditions, disabilities or past medical leave. Why: the only relevant question is whether the candidate can perform the essential functions of the job, with or without reasonable accommodation.
- Don't ask for salary history where the law restricts it, as many US states and cities do. Why: it carries past pay gaps into the new offer. Ask for the expected compensation range instead.
- Don't ask the candidate to name, rate or share private details about people they manage now. Why: it asks them to break their reports' confidence. Ask about the situation and what they did, without names.
Making the decision
The must-haves are hiring and developing people, delivery and execution, and stakeholder communication. Any 1 on a must-have is a no, and so is any competency rated 1 by two interviewers. A hire needs an average of 3.5 or higher. The hiring manager, usually the director the role reports to, decides after the debrief and records the evidence behind each rating.
Questions people ask
- Should an engineering manager candidate do a coding interview?
- It depends on how hands-on the role is. If the manager will write production code, include a short technical exercise. If not, a design or architecture discussion tests the technical judgment they will actually use, without testing a skill the job does not need.
- Should engineers on the team interview their future manager?
- Yes, for one round, with a defined competency such as team health and the same written anchors as everyone else. It shows the candidate what the team is like and gives the team a voice. It should not turn into a popularity veto.
- How do we assess a first-time manager?
- Look for management behavior in a non-manager job: mentoring, leading a project, running interviews, settling a disagreement. Ask the same questions and accept examples from tech-lead work. The anchors stay the same; the scope of the evidence is smaller.
- How many interviews does an engineering manager loop need?
- Usually a screen plus four rounds: people, delivery, technical judgment, and stakeholders, with one run by a peer manager or a product partner. More rounds rarely add new evidence, and strong managers often have competing offers.
A kit is step one.
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